Random things to think about8/10/2023 The ones you love cannot accurately discern how much you love them and the ones you don’t like have no avenue to know just how much you dislike them. Often, we say, “I know how you feel,” but do we, really? We feel emotions at varying levels and no one can ever know how you truly feel at the moment. No one has completely and actually felt what anyone else has felt in their life time. Someone lived their life in this home, and you’re just passing by. It’s really unnerving when you think about it. I think about how someone must have memorized its every nook and cranny, how these walls must have heard shouted arguments and whispered reconciliations. They might have tripped on those stairs, or looked out on those windows watching the stars. When I go to someone’s house, I always think about how many memories they have of that house. Here are a few of my most common morbid thoughts. When you stare out a window during a long bus ride, what do you think of? We amble through life not realizing just how much history is within our grasp, and how much of the future depends on what we do today. The human condition has become worse for wear over time. Whenever I’m quiet and brooding, my thoughts turn dark for no reason and I keep on picturing terrible scenarios in my head which lead to internal philosophical debates and existential crises. Read iDiva for the latest in Bollywood, fashion looks, beauty and lifestyle news.Despite my cheery disposition and positive vibes, my very close friends know that I have an extremely morbid mind. It’ll help you declutter your mind and focus only on the necessary! Self communication is a super power most evolved and mature individuals possess and it’s pretty sick to have on your side. On a regular, just imagine the number of thoughts you discard from your brain? So just because they’re about the good times with an ex doesn’t mean you want them in any capacity.ĭ) Accept the thoughts that come to you, process them and try to figure out where exactly they stem from. Reality is that everyone has random useless thoughts that go on in their head, that doesn’t mean their life is dictated by them. There are solid reasons why you both are not together which is what needs to be focused on.Ĭ) Thinking that something is wrong because these thoughts have come to you when you’re dating someone else, and beating yourself up about is quite dumb. Here are a few things to keep in mind when this happens.Ī) These thoughts are mostly a reflection of an idle mindī) Even if you do end up reminiscing about your ex, remember that you’re only reliving the happy times. Stressing on it, however, solves no situation except for aggravating it. Even if you’re in a committed loving relationship at present, getting thoughts about your ex would not go down well with yourself as well. Once something triggers your thinking, it is likely to snowball into a bigger significance issue. When this happens, you’ll be amused at the randomness of it because it’ll make you feel like you were never thinking about them in the first place, so yeh aya kahan se? Cut to you stalking this guy after 9 months of breaking up just because there was a chain of lazy thoughts when you only #throwback to the good times. Not when you’re bustling at work at 2 pm. Most likely you’re going to have it when your mind is relatively free. The first thing to address here is the situation in which you had the thought. Be cautious friend! Your brain will convince you he was the one but that’s SO not true, we cannot even… *rolls eyes* You’ll be randomly watching something with your parents and a thought will appear- “Oh, remember that time when J and I watched the same movie.” That’s pretty much the start of a spiral. Once in a while our brain will trick us into believing we might be missing our ex.
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